“If a guy acts like he doesn’t give a shit, he really doesn’t give a shit. Ain’t that some shit?” I read this and it just had me thinking…
So the counter statement to this would be something like this, “If a girl acts like she doesn’t give a shit, she really does give a shit. Ain’t that some shit?” Am I right? If you don’t think so, then stop reading. You probably won’t want to hear the rest of what I have to say, so I’m just letting you know now that you don’t have to read anymore.
Anyways…
Seriously, why do we constantly do this to ourselves? We sit there pretending that this doesn’t phase us or that we don’t care, but we do. You know we do. And yes, there are those times when we actually don’t give a shit, but I’m talking about those plenty of other times when we do. Don’t act like you don’t know what I’m talking about. Now if you think I’m about to sit here and validate our behavior, I’m not. (But I probably will end up doing that somehow. Trust, it’s unintentional.) The way we act is pretty foolish if you think about it. You wonder why we get hurt all the time? Reality check: Because we do it to our damn selves.
Really, guys, they’re pretty easy to figure out. We sort of just complicate it for ourselves. “He really doesn’t give a shit.” When they act like they don’t care, it’s because they probably don’t. I mean honestly, it’s as if we deliberately, but at the same time unintentionally set ourselves up for failure. I know, doesn’t really make sense, right? But stay with me. What fucks us up from the get-go is the misguided notion we conjure up for ourselves. We believe their minds work like ours do, that they think and act on emotions like we do. It’s an innocent mistake. We believe they have feelings just like we do. Now I’m not saying that they don’t; they do. It’s just that they do not act on their emotions as we do, and that’s just how it’s meant to be. Just as the prior logic goes, there’s a flip side. If he acts like he gives a shit, he really does give a shit. In other words, if he really cares, then he’ll show it. Plain and simple. Like I said, pretty easy to figure them out, right? If only we were the same.
As I said, our behavior as females is pretty foolish. We do the opposite of what we really feel like doing or saying. Now why it is that we do that, I honestly don’t know. As a matter of fact, I don’t think anyone really knows. Perhaps it’s because if we suddenly decided to act like a guy, the world would just stop turning or something. Bless our little hearts if for some reason we just decide to stop being complicated for one second, because the world may just end right then and there.
Females just need to remember that we need to stop making shit up in our heads. If he doesn’t care for you the way you want him to and if he doesn’t act the way you want, then move on to the next one. Don’t waste your time. There will be someone who will love you like you want him to and treat you like you shit out rainbows and butterflies. In due time, my dears. In due time.
Males need to understand that we females are complicated creatures. Our minds do not work like yours. There’s more to it than just the surface with us. There’s about 565745 layers to just one of our thoughts. No matter what any female says, we DO NOT think like you. You know those times when we say we don’t care but we really do care? Why we just don’t say that we really do give a fuck, it beats the hell out of me. How about you just think of our incapabilities of being upfront as us protecting you. Would you really want to go through our entire thought process? Seriously, would you? I’m just going to take a wild guess here and say no. All I can really say is by now you should be used to us not really putting our every thought out there. We’re mysterious that way. Don’t act like you don’t like it. Why else would you still put up with us after all this time if our complexities and unfathomable behaviors didn’t entice you? No answer? That’s what I thought.
I guess what it comes down to is this, if we want to live less complicated lives in at least this one aspect (our love lives, if you didn’t catch that by now) then we have to be more empathetic towards the opposite sex. I know, it’s not groundbreaking news or anything. It’s pretty common knowledge. It’s not rocket science; it’s just simply thinking of someone besides our self for a minute. Ain’t that some shit?
(Bless your little heart if you actually read this whole thing.)
OH and for those of you who are sitting there thinking, “This bitch doesn’t know what she’s talking about. I’m not like that. Blah, blah, blah.” I’m going to stop you right there. In case you didn’t notice, about five or six paragraphs ago I told your ass to stop reading. It’s your own fault if you’re sitting there regretting you wasted your time, not mine. (-sarcasticbitch:)
Sonny actually sat me down and told me almost everything that was mentioned in this blog. And its true, there are times when I just hurt myself.
I miss going on photowalks. I definitely need to do that this weekend. Especially since it’s Riverfest! (:
Die In Your Arms - Justin Bieber
Damnnn, what a frickin’ jam!
Wouldn’t be surprised if Bruno Mars wrote this song.
Not Bruno…Rodney Jerkins did (and a few other guys). And yes, hooks gallore. I actually dig this a lot! haha! -mp
Frank Ocean- Anywhere
“you blow my mind everytime that we’re alone. lets do something new, tell me where you wanna go, so much oppurtunity, so many possibilities.”
Ellie Goulding - High For This (The Weeknd Cover)
